Saying 'I Do' Again! A Guide to Planning Your Vow Renewal

Remember the nervous excitement of your wedding day? The thrill of exchanging vows and starting your forever together? A vow renewal ceremony allows you to recapture that magic and celebrate the journey you've shared as a couple so far. But what is a vow renewal really? We've got you covered with your guide to creating a meaningful and unforgettable ceremony.

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What is a Vow Renewal?

Generally speaking, a vow renewal is a ceremony where you and your spouse reaffirm your love for one another, reflect on your marriage, and look forward to the future. Beyond that it can be anything you want it to be! There's no one-size-fits-all reason for a vow renewal.

Pro-Tip: A vow renewal is not an official ceremony - no formal officiant or paperwork is needed. 

Why Renewal Your Vows?

Maybe you want to celebrate a milestone anniversary or reaffirm your commitment after experiencing all the ups and downs of life together. Perhaps your original wedding was small or unconventional, and you now dream of a bigger celebration with loved ones. A vow renewal is a beautiful way to express your love and commitment no matter the reason.

Your Vows: The Most Important Part!


Unlike a wedding, there are no legalities involved in a vow renewal. This frees you to personalize your ceremony completely! You can revisit your original vows, write new ones that reflect your experiences together, or even include lighthearted elements that showcase your personalities.

Planning Your Vow Renewal

While vow renewals are less formal than weddings, some planning is still involved. Here are some key considerations:

  • Guest List:  Do you want a grand celebration with loved ones, or an intimate gathering of just the two of you?

  • Venue:  Choose a location that holds special meaning to you, whether it's a private spot on the beach or a favorite restaurant.

  • Attire:  While some couples opt for formal wear again, vow renewals allow for more flexibility.  Dress in a way that feels comfortable and reflects your style.  

  • Photography/Videography: You can choose professionals to capture this special occasion, or you can set up a tripod and timer and take more casual shots!

  • Celebratory Touches: Live music, readings, or special toasts can add a personal touch. 

Whether you say “I do again!” or “I still do!” the options for vow renewal decor are endless! Check out some of our favorite items below:

Pro-tip: People who were not part of your wedding ceremony (children, grandchildren!) can play a lead role in your vow renewal. Enlist an adult child to be the officiant or your youngest grandchild to be a ring bearer! 

Remember: the most important aspect of your vow renewal is that it reflects your unique love story. It's all about celebrating your journey together and recommitting to your future.  

So, are you ready to say "I do" all over again? (link to packages)