All Things Wedding Venue

After you say “YES!” to your fiance, saying “YES!” to your wedding venue is the next big wedding-related commitment you will make (unless you intend to hire a wedding planner- and sometimes even then) . Locking in a venue will solidify your wedding date & location, provide you with insight into what other vendors you will need, and allow you to manage how the rest of your wedding budget is allocated. These key factors will guide you throughout the rest of your wedding planning. Feel confident with the venue you choose by following this guide!

This article is divided into 3 sections:

1. What you need to know and consider before beginning your venue search

2. Questions to ask a wedding venue prior to booking

3. Maximizing the value of your venue

What you need to know and consider before beginning your venue search

1. Plan your overall budget before signing a venue contract. Budget should come first and foremost when considering your venue. No matter what your budget is; it matters! As the single largest expense for most weddings, if you go over budget on the venue, the rest of the budget is going to suffer. If you are considering hosting a backyard wedding prepare a very realistic budget outline to weigh the actual cost! Sometimes backyard weddings can save money, sometimes they will end up costing more. It completely depends on your unique situation.

2. Consider your guest count. Guest count is going to have a massive impact on how much you spend on each aspect of your wedding. It will also limit your options for venues.  Many venues have maximum guest counts, while some venues have minimums! Some venues that can accommodate larger weddings will charge for people over a certain number (for example, a venue that has the potential to hold 500 guests may start charging $15/person after the first 100 guests). If you are considering hosting at a private property, a smaller guest count can make a backyard wedding more affordable while a larger guest count can push a backyard wedding well past what an actual venue would cost. 

3. Types of venues and what they include. Prior to beginning your venue search be sure to consider the varying levels of inclusivity offered. The type of venue you choose will have a big effect on how the rest of your budget will need to be allocated and how much effort the rest of planning will require. While venues range drastically on what they include or don’t include, there are five general “blanket categories” that they will typically fall into.

   1. All inclusive venues- Some venues are truly one stop shops. This means they will provide almost everything you need for your wedding! True all inclusive venues aren’t common and are usually only found at popular tourist and destination wedding locations.These venues always include a ceremony area, chairs for the ceremony, altar, appetizers, full meal, cake, service staff, tables, table linens, dinner chairs, plates, napkins, silverware, drinking glasses, basic decor, lighting, dance floor, day of coordination, timeline preparation and a photographer. They will often also include design consultations, an open or semi-open bar, florals, DJ, sound equipment, bridal suite, hotel suite for the newly weds, an officiant for your ceremony, and/or a videographer. They will usually also offer package deals on hotel rooms for guests and occasionally may include a few guest rooms in the overall package price. These venues will usually offer optional upgrades to any of the services they provide for additional fees. This all sounds expensive, but often they are actually less expensive than piecemealing a wedding together from afar (especially considering the typically high cost of weddings at popular destination wedding locations). A major drawback to a venue like this is the lack of customization available. These venues work well for destination weddings since it is harder to plan a wedding from afar. 

   2. Mostly inclusive venues- Mostly inclusive venues are fairly common. These venues are typically hotels, ballrooms, event halls, etc. These venues almost always include appetizers, full meal, cake, service staff, tables, table linens, dinner chairs, plates, napkins, silverware, drinking glasses, lighting, dance floor, basic clean up, and a venue coordinator (different than a day of coordinator! More on this under item #13). Essentially everything you need to host a nice party will be included. Fairly often they will also include a ceremony area, chairs for the ceremony, altar, bar, and/or basic decor. You will still need to find vendors like your coordinator, photographer, videographer, florist, DJ, hair and makeup teams, officiant, etc. Again, it sounds like all of this would be expensive, but often it ends up being less money than independently hiring each vendor since so much is bundled into one package! These types of venues still lack the full freedom for customization and often come with outside vendor restrictions (meaning, you will likely have to select vendors from their pre approved vendor list). 

   3. Somewhat inclusive venues- Somewhat inclusive venues typically provide power, bathrooms, tables, chairs, onsite security, and parking. Often they will also include a dance floor, lighting, physical bar space, additional tables for special displays (i.e. dessert, gifts, welcome table, etc.), ceremony area, ceremony seating, altar, bathroom amenities (toilet tissue, soap, paper towels, etc), running water for vendors, trash removal, and/or a venue coordinator (different from a day of coordinator!). These venues are usually fairly open to allowing outside vendors and typically come at a lower starting rate. These venues allow for a lot of customization! If you are considering a venue that matches this description be sure to take a very close look at your overall budget before signing a contract. Though the site fee may seem low, the overall cost of the wedding may end up being higher once you select all of your other vendors. 

   4. Almost blank slate venues- Some venues label themselves as “blank slates,” but they aren’t truly blank slates. They will include the absolute basics like power, restrooms, and parking. They will occasionally include things like covered or indoor areas, lighting, water access for vendors, parking attendants, security, trash cans, trash bags, bathroom amenities (i.e. toilet tissue, soap, paper towels, etc.), and/or trash removal. They rarely have strict rules and/or vendor restrictions. These venues offer a lot of room to customize your wedding, and the site fees are often much lower than a more inclusive venue, but again, be sure to consider all of the other expenses your wedding will incur prior to signing a contract.  

   5. Truly blank slate venues- Blank slate venues are essentially empty areas that you transform into an event space. You will need generators for power, bathrooms, lighting... EVERYTHING. Since these spaces require everything to be brought in, they rarely have strict rules and/or vendor restrictions. This offers a ton of room for customization! It also allows for a lot of room for error (think Fyre Fest). Prior to booking, be sure to think through every single aspect of what is needed to host your wedding and make sure you are up for the challenge! The key to hosting a successful wedding at a blank slate venue will be a can-do attitude and an amazing team of vendors! The site fees are usually lower compared to more inclusive venues with a similar aesthetic in the area, however, cost effectiveness is about 50/50 on these venues. Depending on your design vision and the site fee, creating your desired wedding aesthetic piecemealing your wedding together may end up costing more or less than hosting at a more inclusive type of venue. 

4. What time of year are you hoping to host your wedding? The time of year you choose to host your wedding will greatly affect a few aspects of your wedding venue. 

   1. Pricing- Most venues have “off season” and “peak season” pricing. Since winter weddings are less common, venues offer lower pricing to fill their winter dates. 

   2. Weather- The weather changes with the season and should be taken into consideration when choosing a venue. If you are getting married at a particularly rainy, cold, hot, or windy time of year, outdoor venues or venues without AC can create some challenges. Accommodating for the weather may impose some additional costs (i.e. tent, heaters, umbrellas, or fans rentals).

   3. Landscape- As the weather changes so does the natural landscape. This is particularly important for outdoor venues, but is still relevant for indoor venues with larger windows. The leaves change color, certain flowers may or may not be in bloom, the grass may be green or beige, etc. The natural color schemes present on your wedding date will affect your overall aesthetic.

      Pro-tip #1: Visit your venue around the time of year you will be married to fully understand the naturally occurring elements. If physically visiting is not possible, find pictures from previous weddings held at your venue from around the same time in previous years.

5. Indoor, outdoor, or combo venue?

   1. Indoor venues- 

      1. Pros- Controlling the climate is usually a non-issue! Weather can’t easily rain on your parade if you are indoors! In addition, power, restrooms, and water are almost always available at indoor venues. You also are less likely to have your music volume closely monitored since the music won’t be as audible to neighbors (some sound ordinances may still need to be adhered to).

      2. Cons- Most of the negatives of an indoor venue are purely aesthetic. There is always less natural light than at an outdoor venue. You will also have to work around existing decor (i.e. wall color, flooring, art pieces, lighting, etc.). Indoor venues are also more likely to have strict policies on how and where decor can be displayed (more on this under item 11).

   2. Outdoor venues-

      1. Pros- Outdoor venues are beautiful! There is always a lot of natural light and the existing foliage will add to the overall aesthetic. The smell of your dinner won’t linger in the air throughout dinner, and you will have the opportunity to dance under the stars!

      2. Cons- You will need to consider the weather to ensure guest comfort. Wildlife may also be an issue (i.e. BUGS). Sound ordinances are usually a bigger issue at outdoor venues (though many remote outdoor venues won’t have this problem).

   3. Combination Indoor/Outdoor venues- The indoor and outdoor spaces of a venue that offers both can be utilized in a variety of ways. The most common use of space is to host the ceremony and cocktail hour outdoors and dinner and dancing take place indoors. It is fairly common for dinner to also take place outdoors, it just depends on the available space and venue restrictions. Some venues will have strict, designated areas for each portion of the wedding to take place, while others will allow you to use each space as you see fit.

      1. Pros- You get the best of both worlds! At least a portion of your wedding will occur in the gorgeous natural light surrounded by the beautiful landscape. If there is inclimate weather, you have a built in backup plan at little to no additional cost! Since dancing usually occurs indoors you are less likely to have noise volume strictly monitored. 

      2. Cons- You may love one of the spaces, but not be totally in love with the other. Maybe just the indoor or outdoor area is really speaking to you, but the other space is a compromise. You are also likely to run into some decor placement and display restrictions for the indoor portion of the event. You will also have to work around existing decor and design elements in the space.

6. Separate ceremony and reception locations / things to consider when selecting a place of worship. Some religions or specific religious leaders require wedding ceremonies to take place within a place of worship. Some couples simply prefer to be married in a place of worship. Since chapels, synagogues, temples, etc. don’t usually allow receptions to be held onsite, you will need to find another space to host the celebration following your ceremony. Many reception venues do offer ceremony locations which are perfect for couples looking for minimal or no religion in their ceremony or for couples who have a religious leader willing to perform a marriage ceremony outside of a place of worship. If you choose to split the ceremony and reception between two venues there are a few things you can do to make the transition smoother. 

   1. Consider proximity- Choose venues relatively close together (more on this under item #8 section d). 

   2. Plan for guest transport- It is nice to provide transportation for guests between the two locations. This is not necessary, but if it fits into your budget it is a huge convenience for guests, ensures all guests make it to the reception location in a timely manner, and guarantees guests won’t be drinking and driving later in the night.

   3. Ask about parking- If the venues are walking distance from one another or if you provide transportation between the venues but not to the ceremony location, ask the venue if guests are able to leave their cars at the ceremony location for the duration of your reception. Be sure to ask about overnight parking as well! If guests drink at the reception or simply don’t want to return to the ceremony location that evening they may choose to leave their vehicle overnight. Confirm the rules on this and communicate the expectation (and potential repercussions) with guests so they can prepare accordingly.

   4. Decor- Ask about decor restrictions at your ceremony location. Many places of worship have restrictions on what decor can and cannot be placed. Also consider: what decor you will need at each space, who will set up the decor at each space, if decor can be transferred between spaces, and who will transfer the decor if necessary. 

   5. Ask about vendor restrictions- Many places of worship have restrictions on what vendors can be onsite and/or policies on how vendors should conduct themselves. For example, many places of worship will limit photographer access and only allow them to take pictures from the back of the chapel, synagogue, temple, etc. Some won’t allow photographers or videographers at all! While this isn’t particularly common, it is worth discussing prior to signing a contract!

7. Consider the overall aesthetic you are going for. All venues will have some kind of existing aesthetic that may or may not work with your design vision. An event space such as a ballroom, conference room, etc., has carpeting, wall colors, table and chair choices, and existing artwork to take into consideration. Outdoor venues will have trees that produce different colors in different seasons. When you tour venues, make sure you are looking at every existing design element (both natural and manmade), and consider how it will work with your desired aesthetic. Click here for more on building a wedding design and how this is relevant to your venue.

8. Location, location, location. The physical location of the venue is so important, but how it is important will vary depending on each couple’s unique situation. 

   1. Traveling guests- If a large portion of your guest list (over 25%) will be traveling by plane to attend your wedding, consider proximity to an airport. You don’t necessarily need to be next door, but within an hour of an airport is ideal. If a large portion are traveling by either plane or car, you will need to consider where the nearest hotel is.

   2. Hotel proximity- Speaking of hotels and traveling guests, you will need to find a hotel that is relatively close to the reception venue. Finding a hotel that is close and affordable for guests is convenient and ensures that your block is filled so you aren’t left with a hefty bill for unfilled rooms. This will also decrease travel time and transportation costs to and from the venue.

   3. Travel fees- For particularly remote locations, many vendors will charge a travel fee. This should be considered into your overall budget if you have fallen in love with a venue that is a ways off the beaten path. 

   4. Separate ceremony and reception venues- If you are hosting your ceremony and reception at separate venues you will need to find two spaces that are relatively close together. This makes commuting more convenient for guests, but will also maximize your time with vendors that need to be at both locations like your photographer, videographer, coordinator, etc. 

   5. Location aesthetic- If you have a specific look or feel you are going for (i.e. beach, woodsy, mountains, rustic, modern/industrial, etc.) make sure you find a venue that will work for your feel. While it is not 100% necessary to have a beach venue for a beach themed wedding, finding a location that inherently encompasses your theme will help make your design more cohesive.

9. Think about your absolute “must haves.” Your venue “must haves” can be anything! For some people, being within budget may be the biggest “must have,” for others it may be location, date availability, aesthetic, or any other number of things. Before beginning your venue search, write out a list of the most important venue elements to you and your fiance. Order the deciding factors based on priority level. This will help guide your venue search! You may not find a space that checks off all of the boxes, but try to find a venue that includes at least the majority of your most sought after features. 

10. Look for the “wow” factor. At all price points you can find venues with a “wow” factor. This may be a stunning view, interesting history, perfect location, incredible price, or any other number of things. The “wow” factor is what makes your venue stand out above the rest.

11. Rules and restrictions may apply. Read the fine print before booking a venue and have a very clear understanding of what you are signing up for. There are a few common restrictions that many couples find are deal breakers.

    1. Vendor restrictions- Many venues will have strict vendor policies. The strictest vendor policies only allow you to book from the venue’s pre-approved vendor list. This often means booking vendors who don’t exactly work with your vision and/or are not in your desired price range. If you are considering a venue with this policy be sure to personally vet each vendor they require prior to signing a contract with the venue. Some venues will allow you to bring in outside vendors as long as they are licensed, insured, and/or sign a document saying they agree to the venue’s “house rules.” This approach is actually in your best interest! Hiring professionals to work your wedding is very important (as opposed to finding “hobbyists” or random people agreeing to provide a service they don’t typically do) and having the vendors sign an agreement with the venue takes some of the liability for accidents on the vendors’ part off of you.

    2. Fire restrictions- Many venues, especially in drier areas, have limits on fires. Some absolutely prohibit any kind of flame. Some may only allow contained flames. If your design vision includes a lot of candles or you’ve always dreamed of a sparkler exit, this restriction won’t work for you. Note that fire restrictions will often completely prohibit smoking. If you have a large number of guests who smoke and a venue with strict policies make sure to communicate this to your guests so they can make appropriate accommodations for themselves and you aren’t stuck with a hefty fine at the end of the night!

    3. End time- It is fairly common, especially for outdoor venues in areas with sound ordinances, to have strict end times when the party must stop. If you were picturing your friends and family dancing into the wee hours of the morning, a venue with a 10:30pm end time is not going to work for.

    4. Sound restrictions- Apart from (though sometimes in conjunction with) sound ordinances, some venues will require your noise level stay below a certain decibel. This makes sense for a lot of venues. Annoying the neighbors with loud music is a quick way to lose an event license! There are two main approaches to ensuring this happens. 

       1. They require your DJ use their house speaker system- More often than not, the house systems are fine! They provide ample sound and the DJ may even offer a discount since they won’t need to provide their own sound equipment. However, occasionally the house systems are less than stellar. Sometimes they are so quiet that guests won’t want to dance and/or the microphone can’t be heard. Another typical problem with house systems is equipment failure. Your DJ may be able to quickly troubleshoot if something goes wrong with their own equipment (things happen, technology isn’t perfect), but they may not be particularly familiar with the ins and outs of the house system. Often the wires for house systems are run through walls, so troubleshooting isn’t even possible for the duration of your event. Some ways to ensure neither of these situations occur or will be an issue: 1) during your venue tour listen to the house system at the maximum allowed volume. Consider how that volume will translate to a full room. Remember, the volume will sound much louder when the room is empty! 2) Ask about the backup plan should anything go array with the sound. Will your DJ be allowed to set up their own equipment if something goes wrong? Is someone onsite to help troubleshoot? If the venue does provide a designated person to troubleshoot, are they a sound engineer with experience, or is it a site manager who is just doing their best? 3) Thoroughly read reviews of the venue for specific mentions of the sound quality. If any sound issue has commonly occurred in the past, it will surely be mentioned in reviews!

       2. They monitor the sound the DJ or musician is producing- This typically won’t affect the microphone at all, but occasionally it will have an impact on the dancing portion of the evening. Again, read reviews and look for common mention of sound restrictions proving to be an issue.

    5. Alcohol limitations- Beyond the basics, such as only serving alcohol to those of the legal age limit and not over serving guests, some venues have strict rules on alcohol or may not allow any alcohol. While almost all venues require licensed bartenders (if they don’t require this, you should absolutely only hire a licensed bartender anyway), some will take their rules a step further by restricting the alcohol to beer and wine only or none at all. This is a less common rule, but it is a quick decision making limitation for couples that want to provide alcohol for their guests. 

    6. Trash removal- Trash removal is such an underrated service. If you find yourself at a venue that does not include trash removal and you haven’t planned an alternative for trash removal, you will come to appreciate just how important this piece is at the end of your wedding. Some venues will include this in their services, others will not. While this may not be a reason to count out a venue, it is certainly a huge plus when you find it listed in a venue’s package! If you book with a venue that does not include trash removal be sure to thoroughly plan for this!

    7. Decor restrictions- Most venues don’t want you to place any decor in such a way that could potentially damage or permanently alter their existing space. It makes sense! The venue will host many events after yours, and everyone deserves to have the same quality of space so they can’t risk you changing permanently. There are plenty of ways to still incorporate all of your design elements, though it may be a little trickier and more expensive than simply nailing something to the wall. This may not work for your vision! If you want gorgeous, lush hanging floral arrangements, a venue that won’t allow this isn’t going to be a good fit. Note: There are plenty of ways to still have all of the hanging pieces you want! Installing them just may come at a higher price!

    8. Rental restrictions- Some venues (typically higher end venues) often have lovely furniture that was carefully selected to work with the rest of the design elements in their space. Occasionally a venue that has invested in quality furnishings will be reluctant (or outright refuse) to move their property to storage. It is not particularly common for couples to replace the existing furniture at these types of venues anyway, but, of course, there are exceptions! If you find a beautiful venue, and want to go a different route with the furniture make sure they allow outside rentals to replace their furniture prior to signing a contract with them. 

    9. Photography restrictions- This is not a common restriction for venues to have, but when they do it is a quick way to send couples running! Usually venues that have photography restrictions will still allow photography, you will just need a permit beforehand. If that is the case, photography restrictions shouldn’t necessarily be a deal breaker. If no photos are allowed, be sure you are comfortable with this and communicate the restriction with guests so you aren’t stuck with a fine at the end of the night!

12. Know the difference between a venue coordinator and a day of coordinator. There is often a lot of confusion around the role of a venue coordinator and it is often assumed they will act as a day-of coordinator. This misunderstanding can result in the cost of a day of coordinator being overlooked initially, and then being added down the road. This is a huge expense to leave out of the overall budget! Make sure you understand the difference and know exactly what your venue’s package includes.

    1. Venue coordinator- A venue coordinator’s job is to manage all of the venue related services. This usually includes ensuring the tables and chairs are arranged how you previously discussed, handling bathroom restocking, taking care of maintenance issues, making sure the venue’s policies and protocols are adhered to, etc. Just as your photographer will take care of all things photography, but only photography, your venue coordinator is the representative and team captain for the venue, and only the venue.

    2. Day-of coordinator- The day of coordinator does all of the things you would typically take care of as the host of a party. They are the team captain of all of the wedding vendors, including the venue coordinator. In a nutshell, they usually take care of making the space pretty and ensuring the day runs smoothly. They communicate with all of the vendors beforehand to make sure everyone is on the same page, ensure vendors arrive on time, start at their contracted time, perform all of the tasks they agreed to, and are cued before special events. They will troubleshoot if something goes awry with the vendors or the timeline. This is your right-hand for the day, taking care of all of the behind the scenes aspects to your wedding so you can focus on getting married and celebrating! Click here to learn more about the wedding coordinator’s role in your big day!

13. Day of the week and pricing. Many venues have special pricing for weekdays, Fridays, and Sundays. Since these days are less common for weddings to occur, venues will often offer their space at a lower rate to fill the dates! 

Questions to ask a venue prior to booking

The basics-

1. Are you available on my desired date? If not, what days within a few weeks of my desired date do you have open?

2. Do you require a deposit? How much?

3. When is the balance due?

4. What is your preferred method of payment?

5. What is your cancellation policy if I cancel?

6. What is your cancellation policy if you cancel?

7. What is your rescheduling policy if I need to change my date?

8. What is the backup plan if you are unable to fulfill your contract due to a last minute conflict?

9. Are there any additional fees, such as taxes, staffing fees, etc., that are not included in the package price?

10. Are you licensed?

11. Are you insured? Does the insurance cover all of your staff and property?

Pricing details & Venue Requirements-

1. What is the site fee?

2. Is there special pricing for off season dates or days that are not Saturday?

3. Do you offer discounts if I pay in full upfront?

4. Do you offer discounts if I pay cash? 

5. Do you charge a service fee if I pay with a credit card?

6. How many total hours will we have access to the space?

7. How many guests can your venue accommodate?

8. Are there additional fees if I have over a certain number of guests?

9. Will you provide me with a preferred vendors list?

10. Do you require that I use only your pre approved vendors?

11. Do you have restrictions on outside vendors?

12. Are there any additional fees for using outside vendors?

13. Do my vendors need insurance?

14. Am I required to have any specific type of vendor (i.e. security, valet, parking attendant, a wedding planner, or day of coordinator)?

15. Do I need event insurance?

16. Do you have any restrictions on open flames (i.e. candles, sparklers, cigarettes, etc.)?

17. Do you have any sound restrictions?

18. Are there any restrictions regarding alcohol? (i.e. Are we allowed to have alcohol? Do I need a licensed bartender? Can I provide my own alcohol? Is there a specific required time for last call?)

19. Are there any restrictions to what decor I can use or how decor is displayed?

20. Are there any additional services you offer that I can add to my package?

LOGISTICS-

1. How many hours prior to my wedding start time will vendors and the bridal party have access to the space?

2. Is there a limit to how many hours my event can last?

3. What is the absolute latest my wedding can go until?

4. Is there an additional fee past a certain time of night?

5. Do you have restrooms onsite?

6. Do you provide bathroom essentials (i.e. toilet tissue, running water, paper towels, etc.)?

7. Do you have ADA compliant restrooms and access throughout the venue?

8. Do you provide power, water, a kitchen, covered areas, lighting, and/or other accommodations my vendors may need?

9. Is there adequate existing lighting or will I need to bring in my own?

10. Do you provide tables, chairs, ceremony seating, physical bar space, heaters, tents, umbrellas, etc.?

11. Do you offer spaces for the bridal party to get ready? Can I see them? (Hint: Check for showers, sinks with running water, outlets, mirrors, lighting, AC, and overall space provided.)

12. Do you provide any staff for my wedding?

13. Does the venue staff take care of maintaining and stocking the restrooms? 

14. Does the venue staff take care of trash removal?

15. Do you provide security?

16. Do you provide parking attendants and/or valet?

17. Will I have access to the space for my ceremony rehearsal and, if so, for how many hours?

18. When will I be able to reserve my rehearsal date?

19. Where will my guests park?

20. In the past, how easily are guests able to call taxis or rideshares?

21. If the venue is in a remote location with limited cell phone service, do you provide Wifi?

22. Are you anticipating making any changes to the space between now and my wedding date?

Maximizing the value of your venue

1. Ask the venue manager about common oversights or mishaps that occur at their venue. The venue manager or event manager is at this location every single weekend. They know their venue and packages backwards and forwards. They also bare witness to any planning flaws that come to light during the course of an event. Ask about the most common oversights! Usually reoccurring oversights will be something logistical, like trash removal or having adequate lighting. All of these oversights are easily avoided by talking through them prior to your wedding!

2. Communicate often (as necessary) with the venue manager. The venue manager is your ally in wedding planning. Though they aren’t a wedding planner, they can still offer valuable insight into how ideas similar to yours previously worked in their space. They may have suggestions of how to most effectively utilize their space, how many service staff members to hire, where to place decor, what floral pieces work best where, etc. Let them know of any changes in your design or overall wedding planning so they are able to pivot as necessary. This will also allow the venue manager the opportunity to help you only plan things that the venue allows and avoid any fines. Before purchasing 200 sparklers, confirm with your venue manager that this is okay!  

3. Take your wedding planner or coordinator to the venue beforehand. Although pictures will help immensely, there is nothing like seeing a space in person to fully grasp your wedding vision. By attending a venue walkthrough with your planner or coordinator, you will be able to show them exactly where and how you want everything set up. They will also be able to offer their professional opinion on the functionality of your vision, floor plan, design plan. They will also be able to suggest additional design elements where necessary and troubleshoot any issues they find in the space prior to your wedding day!

4. Use the existing amenities. If possible, utilize the furniture, accent pieces, etc. provided by the venue instead of replacing it with outside rentals. This will save you money and time! The furnishings provided by the venue usually work well with the overall aesthetic of the space, anyway, so it is a win-win!

5. Work with the aesthetic, not against it. Play up the existing aesthetic of the space. If the carpet is blue, use it as one of your wedding accent colors. If the overall feel of the space is vintage, incorporate this into your wedding design. This will have a dramatically positive impact on the way everything comes together and ultimately save you a lot of headache over trying to work around the existing design. Having a general idea of your desired overall aesthetic prior to booking your venue is a huge advantage! 

6. Take their preferred vendor list to heart, but do your own research. Venues usually provide clients with a preferred vendors list. This list includes their favorite vendors who they have seen work successfully in their space. Not only are these vendors familiar with the floor plan, venue policies, and venue staff, they are almost always licensed professionals with years of experience. Do your own research into the vendors listed, though! Some of the vendors may not be the right fit for your vision or personality. The venue may have also had ulterior motives for adding these vendors to the list. Oftentimes vendors will offer each other monetary compensation for referrals and, unfortunately, on rare occasions those kickbacks can supersede vendor quality.

7. Take a lot of pictures during your walk through. A picture is worth a thousand words, but in the case of wedding planning they may be worth two thousand! As you hire vendors sending them pictures of the blank space will be useful for understanding the space you are describing. Your florist will be able to see exactly how much space they need to fill. Your planner will be able to envision the design elements needed to customize the space for you. The DJ and caterer will be able to gauge where and how to best set up. Your photographer will get an idea of lighting and where to take pictures. You will also benefit from these pictures as you work to complete your design. Often little details will be overlooked as you try to recall the space from memory. Pictures will help figuratively fill in the gaps throughout planning, so you can literally fill them with your wedding design!

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Wedding Design Building Guide

Wedding design is a world of endless possibilities! You have an opportunity to create a fully custom event that perfectly reflects you and your fiance’s personalities. The best part is there are no right or wrong answers! There are, however, some steps to getting started on your wedding design and guidelines to refer to throughout the planning process that will make developing and implementing your design simpler and fun. Follow the guide below for a smooth wedding design building process. 

This blog is divided into 11 sections:

1. Where to start with wedding design

2. How to select a color scheme

3. What comes first, the venue or the design?

4. Furniture and design consistency

5. Where to find decor

6. How to select decor

7. Utilizing lighting to accentuate your design

8. Utilizing florals to accentuate your design

9. You, your fiance, your bridal party, the guests & your design

10. How to budget for wedding design

11. Tying it altogether

Where to start with wedding design-

Budget- The absolute first step will be settling on an overall wedding budget and deciding how many guests you will invite (more info on budgeting specifically for decor in the second to last section of this article). While neither of these two factors are inherently design oriented, they are the building blocks to wedding planning and will help guide the design process! As you work through the next steps, keeping your budget and guest count in mind will help manage your expectations and ultimately narrow down exactly what design elements are financially attainable to achieve your desired aesthetic. Click here for guidance on building your wedding budget!

YOU- After your budget is decided, start building your wedding design by turning to yourself for ideas. Your own mind is already chalk full of your likes, dislikes, interests, etc. Although your wedding style can vary significantly from design choices you make in other areas of your life, your vision should start with you (and your fiance, of course)! Thinking through what kind of colors, textures, and styles you are already drawn to will help you shape and maintain your vision as you move through the design process.

The Internet- Next, turn to the internet for some guidance! Pinterest has had a massive impact on the wedding industry, especially when it comes to design. Since Pinterest first launched, we have seen wedding styles become increasingly more diverse and creative. In addition to Pinterest, Instagram and wedding blogs offer loads of inspiration! Find a few pages that you like and keep up with their latest information and ideas. It is easy to get lost in the rabbit hole of Pinterest and Instagram and the further in you go, you may find that your vision is shifting from what you initially thought you wanted. That is okay! Save the inspiration pictures you love along the way and then look at them all together. Find what works, doesn’t work, or simply needs to be adjusted to fit into your evolving vision.

Consult a Professional- Finally, consult with a professional. A professional wedding planner or wedding designer can help develop your vision. If you have a few loose ideas they can help you fill the gaps and tie everything together. If you have no idea of what you’d like, they can gather some general information about you and your fiance in order to build your perfect wedding that you couldn’t quite envision in your mind. If you have a very specific vision, these professionals will be able to take your wants and needs and turn them into reality!

Pro-tip #1: Be aware as you search the internet that a lot of the beautiful designs you come across will come at a price. This may seem obvious, but Pinterest has a way of captioning very beautiful things in ways that make them seem very attainable budget-wise. Just take the ideas with a grain of salt until you do your own research to decide if it will work with your budget.

Pro-tip #2: Often Pinterest will depict DIY projects with incredible results. It is totally possible to break out the hot glue and create some amazing decorations for your wedding! Know your strengths and proceed accordingly. Budgets are easily blown on failed DIY attempts. If you want to try a project, try a smaller project using similar materials to gauge how the bigger project will go! When in doubt, look up a video tutorial!

Pro-tip #3: Keep your Pinterest boards organized! Instead of having one large “our wedding” board, divide the board into sections. Having a designated space for each design element is convenient, not only for yourself, but also for the vendors you will share these boards with. A lot of planners, designers, hair stylists, makeup artists, florists, bridal boutiques, etc. will ask to see your inspiration to understand your vision. Providing a streamlined and up-to-date vision board is a must!

How to select a color scheme-

How many colors?- Typically selecting between three to five colors total for your wedding is suggested. Anything less can be understated or non cohesive, anything over has the potential to become busy or non cohesive. There are, of course, a million and one exceptions to this, but having this range in mind is helpful when starting your color selection process! Ideally you will have two main colors and two to three accent colors. The main colors don’t necessarily need to go together on their own, because the accent colors will bridge the gap between them. Stick to one consistent factor among your colors (tone, hue, base color, etc.) your end result will be lovely!

Season- Season is a great place to start when considering colors for your wedding. If you are hosting a fall wedding deep reds, burnt oranges, and mustard yellows will be your friend! For a winter wedding, deep forest green, red, white, and even charcoal work beautifully! If your wedding is in spring softer colors like blush pink, denim blue, and champagne gold are perfect! For a summer wedding bright colors are perfect! 

Pro-tip #4: Seasonal colors are a great guide for more than just being fashion forward. The seasonal colors are common in the flowers and decor available during that time. By choosing “in season” colors, your corresponding flower options will be less expensive and your decor options will be more readily available.

Venue- It is also beneficial to consider what colors will work with the venue you have chosen. If it is an outdoor venue, the season will impact what colors are naturally occuring and therefore alter your overall aesthetic. An indoor venue will have existing design elements such as carpeting, wall colors, furniture, or even specific styles of lighting fixtures that are worth considering.

Mood- Colors also help to set the mood for your wedding, so talk with your fiance about what message you want to send to guests. If you want something more traditionally romantic, lighter pastels will help convey this. For a more dramatic and passionate vibe, deeper darker tones will help create this atmosphere. No matter your desired mood, there are some great color options to help set the tone.

NO RULES… except one- While all of this is great in guiding color choice, you certainly don’t need to base your color choice on any of it. If you are choosing to theme your wedding (more on themes in the next section) pick colors that are prominent and relevant to your theme. If you have a favorite color use it and choose accent colors that will accentuate it. If you have a favorite flower, choosing the colors based on this flower will work! If you just really love typical “winter” colors, but are having a summer wedding, GO FOR IT! The only real rule of thumb is finding some kind of common factor to create a sense of cohesion for an aesthetically pleasing wedding.

Pro-tip #5: When in doubt, head to the paint aisle of a local store and check out some splotches! If you want to play around with colors and see how they work together, the paint strips at hardware stores are a great place to try different combinations out!

To theme or not to theme-

Inherit themes- Weddings have a way of inherently developing a broad “theme” as the design vision starts to take shape. Some of the more common themes are rustic, boho, minimalist, modern, and traditional/romantic. Oftentimes these inherit themes will coexist with one another. The key is keeping the design elements cohesive as you blend these themes. You don’t have to necessarily title your theme, but it can help you when it comes time to select decor and describe your overall aesthetic to vendors. For example, as you look back over your developing vision board you may notice that you are drawn to romantic, whimsical, boho designs. Congrats! That is now your “theme.”

Full-on niche themes- Some weddings have very specific niche themes that will shape the design vision. Themes can be anything! For example, beachy, Disney, Jurassic Park, Halloween, Star Wars, baseball… the options are endless! When a theme like this is chosen it is usually meaningful to the couple. If you love a theme, but your fiance isn’t quite on board, you can always use this theme for your engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party, or even rehearsal dinner instead!

Subtle themes- Not all specific themes have to dictate the entire wedding design! If you love Jurassic Park, you don’t have to fully commit. Instead of going all in to the point the groomsmen are in inflatable dinosaur costumes, consider just having a dinosaur cake topper, perhaps a few dinosaurs on signs, and maybe order more lush, prehistoric feeling fauna from your florist! A common trend for book lovers is using stacks of books for the centerpieces. Disney lovers often will include a Mickey Mouse charm on the bride’s bouquet and a few quotes from Disney movies displayed. If you don’t want to have a full on themed wedding, a simple nod to your passion is more than enough to convey the message.

What comes first, the venue or the design?

This will depend on you and your unique situation. Some people will quickly develop an overall desired aesthetic for their wedding and search for venues that will accentuate their intended design. Others will choose to let the budget determine their venue and plan the design around the venue they select. There are no wrong approaches, but there are advantages to thinking through what aspects you value the most and then using those to guide the planning process.

Either way, it is beneficial to think through at least some general design ideas before venue shopping. If budget is going to be the absolute determining factor on the venue, keep your vision flexible! Even if money is no object, you may find a venue that steals your heart, but requires a shift in your design vision! Until your venue is booked, have a loose design vision but, keep an open mind.

Pro-tip #6: Don’t count out a competitively priced venue just solely based on the existing aesthetic. Draping and lighting can easily be added to any space to completely alter the look!

Furniture and design consistency-

Furniture rentals: Going the rental route is going to give you the most control over achieving the exact look you want. There is no shortage of rental companies out there, which means one way or another you will have access to the exact furniture pieces you envisioned for your wedding. However, these options may be limited based on your budget. 

If the gorgeous furniture you want isn’t financially feasible, a compromise may be finding something at a lower cost that is closer to your vision than what the venue offers, but not exactly your dream furniture. There are plenty of ways to play with the other design elements, to make the furniture cohesive with your vision. If this is still not going to work with your budget, then it is time to get creative!

Getting creative: If you cannot swing replacing the furniture at the venue, then it is time to turn those lemons into lemonade. Take a look at other weddings that have a similar aesthetic to what you are going for. There may be some more inspiration that you overlooked before, because you already had your mind set on a different look. Think of different table cloths, centerpieces, table runners, etc. that would be consistent with the look and feel you want to achieve. When considering table cloths, think about their texture, shine factor, and, of course, color. Table runners have a great way of adding dimension, which can make your tables feel fuller and more high end. 

Transforming the chairs at your venue can be a little tricky, but it is doable! The basic white folding chairs are the easiest to modify. Drape a blanket over the back (this doubles as a guest favor and climate control, too!), add some sort of embellishment to the back, or wrap them completely. It should be noted that all of these options will be the same cost or more expensive than renting chairs! The most cost effective way to work with these chairs is to dress the table up enough that the chairs aren’t even a factor. The white folding chairs blend in easily to any aesthetic, which is why they are so common for venues to have. 

Metal folding chairs and banquet chairs are harder to hide. Banquet chairs can be hidden with chair covers, but this has a very specific formal/traditional feel. You can consider draping something over the back to incorporate them into your design, or you can leave the chairs as is. If you leave the chairs alone, take a very calculated approach to how you decorate the table so that the chairs aren’t even noticed!

Metal folding chairs aren’t common at wedding venues, but if you are ballin’ on a budget, you may just have to work with them. If you can’t beat them, join them! The easiest way to work with folding metal chairs is to play into their industrial look. Incorporating other industrial elements, such as matching metals and clean lines, into the wedding will make the chairs feel more like a purposeful design decision rather than a budget-driven compromise. 

Pro-tip # 7: If your chairs aren’t going to match perfectly with the rest of your aesthetic, making the other design elements full yet consistent will keep the overall look from becoming messy. Consider expanding your color pallet to 5 colors, but don’t surpass 5. Avoid super bright colors and go for either deeper tones or more dusty light tones. Pick a texture or two to incorporate several places throughout the reception space. The best way to work around any chair is to make those tables beautiful and keep the rest of your design very, very consistent and cohesive.

Where to find decor-

Wedding decor can be sourced in a variety of ways and you don’t have to select just one sourcing method. Decor is often rented from rental companies, wedding planners, venues, florists, or wedding decorators. Decor can also be purchased from craft stores, the internet, local boutiques, or any store that carries items that work with your design vision.

Decor can also be handmade! Personal touches are a great way to achieve your desired look and make the decor meaningful. If you aren’t personally crafty, find someone who is! There are plenty of professionals and hobbyists who are willing and able to custom make the decor of your dreams!

Pro-tip #8: Be sure to check out Facebook Marketplace, thrift stores, garage sales, etc. for gently used wedding decor. Millions of couples are married every year and purchase decor that will only be used once. You can find essentially brand new items at a fraction of the cost by being creative with where you source these materials!

How to select decor-

With so much access to inspiration and physical decor items, committing to just a few ideas can be challenging. Before actually purchasing any decor it is best to run through your budget and decide how much money you will allocate to decor. 

Research accessibility & pricing- Once you decide on an overall amount, begin researching the cost of your favorite design ideas. If you can’t find the exact items you are searching for, look into commissioning those pieces! There are plenty of talented professionals out there that can create exactly what you are looking for! If your initial ideas don’t immediately fit into your budget, brainstorm alternatives that would produce the same effect for a lower cost. 

Mentally map it- Mapping out your venue and mentally placing the decor pieces will give you a clear idea of how many pieces you need, what size your displays should be, and how full the space will look. Doing this after running through your budget, but prior to making any decor purchases will provide valuable insight into how your design elements will work together and how your ideal decor will fill out the space. Click here to visit our details blog for support on mapping out these areas!

Collect your items- After you have everything mapped out, begin purchasing, crafting, and/or renting the items you would like. This may take some time to find the exact pieces you want at a price you are comfortable with, so ideally this process should begin at least three-four months prior to your wedding, if not sooner!

Try it out!- This is the exciting part! After collecting your items, clear your dining room table and make mockups of how the centerpieces, accent tables, and other decor you’ve chosen will look. This will give you an idea of how full and cohesive your design is. Once you put everything together, you may decide to leave something out or add additional items to complete the look. If you go the decor rental route, the rental company will typically do this for you, either with you present or send pictures if being physically there to offer feedback isn’t an option. You will create or approve a mock up and they will implement the design on the day of your wedding!

Pro-tip #9: After creating your mock up centerpieces, accent table arrangements, etc. take pictures! Make sure they are clear and include all elements of the design. Whoever is in charge of setting up your decor on the wedding day will be able to recreate the exact look you are going for! Even if you are the one setting up your decor for the actual wedding, the pictures are still incredibly beneficial. You will have a lot of things running through your mind on that day, and you don’t want to stress yourself over trying to remember the design you wanted. 

Pro-tip #10: If you don’t find exactly what you are looking for at a price you are comfortable with immediately, be patient! Check back with stores and second hand websites regularly as these items may become available or their price might drop as you get closer to your date! Don’t wait too long on items you feel particularly passionate about. If there is a decor piece that will make or break your day, commission the project so you are guaranteed to have it!

Utilizing lighting to accentuate your design-

In many ways, lighting is the single most important aspect of your wedding design. Lighting has the ability to make massive statements at a relatively low cost. This isn’t to say lighting is cheap, it is simply cost effective when considering the impact it will on the overall aesthetic. The main lighting categories you’ll need to consider include functional lighting, ambient lighting, dance floor lighting, and lights as decor.

Functional lighting- Guests and vendors will need to be able to see, so functional lighting is a necessity. This does not mean you need aggressively bright fluorescent lights, though! The functional lighting you choose can be beautiful and enhance your overall wedding design. 

Dripping string lights hanging from the ceiling or suspended by strings over the dining area help light up the dinner portion of your evening and translate into photographs beautifully. 

Tivoli market lights have been very popular over the past decade! They are a great way to increase visibility, correspond with a large variety of themes, and look amazing in pictures. They are so popular, in fact, that a lot of venues already have them and include them in their site fee.

Full “light canopies” are a more recent trend that can be accomplished in several ways. They are typically created by using smaller string lights placed closely together hung in a way that mimics a canopy. This look creates a “starry night” effect that works well with any theme! 

Large light up hanging lanterns or globes are also gorgeous and versatile. You can choose to select one size and color or use a variety of lanterns to add depth and dimension. The hanging lanterns are usually paper globes with light bulbs inside, but depending on your venue and desired aesthetic, larger metal lanterns can also be used! The paper globe lanterns are typically used for a more playful, whimsical design. The metal lanterns can be boho, rustic, vintage, or woodsy depending on the specific lanterns you find. Since there are so many lantern options, this approach is perfect for any theme! A recent trend is for lanterns to be used on tables in addition to an alternative overhead lighting option. 

Chandeliers are available in an array of styles and add a touch of elegance. Chandeliers are even being used at outdoor events! By bringing a typically “indoor” element to the outdoors you add an element of interest with your lighting.

No matter what lighting you go with, be sure that the bar, catering station, buffet table, water station, coffee station, and restrooms (including lighting on the way to the restroom) have plenty of lighting! Not only do the vendors at each respective station need to see particularly well, so do your guests when they are in these areas! If possible, add additional lighting (such as pinspot lights, overhead lighting, or a lamp) in these areas, to ensure everyone has plenty of visibility in order to do their job to the best of their ability.

Ambient lighting- Lighting is the perfect way to create ambience and complete your wedding design. While the functional lighting can be used to create ambience, there are several niche lighting options that can be added to set the mood!

Candles can be used in so many ways and send a lot of different messages. They are often placed on dinner tables to accent the centerpieces. They can either be free standing, in candelabras, candle votives, lanterns, or any other candle display you find! Since candles and the devices housing them come in so many colors, shapes, sizes, and styles they work well with any design theme. 

Candles can also venture right off the tables and into other areas of your wedding! Large lanterns, candelabras, wall sconces, floating candles, and free standing large candles displayed in clusters are just a few more unique ways to utilize candles. A more recent and unique trend is to create “candle gardens” with an array of large free standing candles for guests to either exit or enter through!

Uplights (lights that shine upwards on walls, trees, draping, etc.) can add to the overall ambience by adding pops of your wedding colors around the room. Most professional uplights can be set to whatever color you choose or even change colors if you prefer variety.These are an efficient and effective technique to incorporate your color scheme into the physical wedding venue. They truly have the ability to transform any space dramatically from one event to the next!

Pro-tip #11: It should be noted that lighting solely intended to enhance the ambience does not usually provide enough visibility on their own and should be used in conjunction with another overhead lighting source. 

Dance floor lighting- When the dancing portion of the evening arrives, dance floor lighting will communicate to guests that it is time to party! Typically your DJ or musician will provide these or offer them as an upgrade. There are a lot of options when it comes to dance floor lighting! Dance floor washes are great because they encompass your dance floor in colorful lighting creating a big impact with a single light type. Laser lights are fun for guests, because they can play with the light strands as they dance! Pulsing dance floor lights, rotating lights, or light shapes are some more fan favorites! There are also entire dance floors that light up and change colors to the beat of the music! Talk with your DJ or lighting professional to see what will be best to create your desired level of “party vibe.” 

Pro-tip #12: Avoid strobe lights if possible. Many people have strobe light sensitivities that you (and potentially even they) aren’t aware of. With so many dance floor lighting options available, choosing to leave out the strobe lights won’t take away from the dance party at all! If you absolutely adore strobe lights, by all means have them! Just be sure to have a strobe free space for guests to retreat to if they start feeling uncomfortable.

Lighting as decor- Certain lights can be utilized on their own as decor or to highlight other design elements. These lights are definitely “extras,” but if you have room in your budget to include them, they will add a lot to your wedding design!

Pinspot lights (mini spot lights) are perfect for accentuating specific design features. These are much smaller than standard spotlights, which makes them ideal for drawing attention to your cake, desserts, sweetheart table, or other areas you worked hard to design.

Gobos are a great way to add a level of customization to your wedding. This is a light that projects monograms either on a wall or the dance floor usually of the newly weds’ initials and sometimes the wedding date. Depending on your venue size and desired effect, usually one or two Gobos will be plenty!

Neon signs can be placed anywhere around the venue as a sign, photo op, or just a pretty piece of decor. The more generic ones that say things like “love,” “cake,” “drinks,” etc. are readily available for rent. Alternatively, you can commission a custom neon sign that says your names or whatever else you like. Going this route will leave you with a fun souvenir from your wedding to use somewhere in your home! If you are interested in having a custom sign created check Etsy and Amazon.

Pro-tip #13: Be sure that you have a way to hang or prop up your neon sign if necessary! Most venues won’t allow you to add nails or any other hanging technique that may cause permanent damage, so if your intent is for them to hang, create a plan to do so. 

Metal marquee letters are beautiful and can serve a variety of purposes. The small-medium ones can be used on or in front of your sweetheart table, dessert table, welcome table, etc. The large ones can either be used behind any of these tables, the dance floor, or any other area as a photo opportunity for your guests. 

Small string lights, or “fairy lights” can be incorporated into your centerpieces or other accent arrangements on special tables to achieve a whimsical feel. These are a great option if your venue does not allow candles!

Pro-tip #14: A huge bonus of lighting is how it impacts your photos! Photographers often account for a large portion of your overall wedding budget, so making sure those pictures are beautiful throughout the event is important! Adequate and particularly lovely lighting features will ensure your photo quality and content is consistently worth the expense all evening long!

Pro-tip #15: When placing lights be conscious of the effect they will have on photos. For example, placing large marquee letters directly behind the sweetheart table may create a backlighting effect on your faces. Talk with your photographer about the lighting you are planning to ensure your photos won’t be affected by your light placement. 

Pro-tip #16: Some lighting features require an outlet in order to operate. Take this into consideration when choosing placement, as they will need to be close enough to reach a power source. If they require an outlet, you will want to make sure the cord is not visible as this will take away from the rest of your beautiful design!

Utilizing flowers to accentuate your design-

Flowers are the perfect touch to complete your design and provide cohesion between your other decor pieces. Even if you choose to go a minimalist route with the flowers, they are still making a statement. By using flowers that have complimentary colors to the rest of your design, they will often bridge the gap between otherwise miss-matched pieces!

Personal flowers- Bouquets and boutonnieres help to incorporate you, your fiance, family members, and your wedding party into the overall design. The flowers will help make you and the VIP attendees appear cohesive with the rest of the colors and overall style without being too “matchy.” This is great for pictures and the general aesthetic as you walk around the celebration to greet guests. 

Centerpieces- The flowers in your centerpieces make the table feel fresh, full, and help spread your design across the reception area. They also assist in conveying the mood of your wedding to your guests! If you are having a formal wedding, a beautiful arrangement of roses on each table will help maintain the beauty and formality. If you are having a casual wedding, a bouquet of wildflowers spreads the vibe throughout the space. 

Altar/Aisle flowers- The ceremony space is usually the first designated area of your wedding that guests will see. This is a great chance to set the tone for the rest of the day! Wedding ceremony altars are often plain in order to provide each couple the opportunity to customize and make it their own. With an arrangement or two the altar is suddenly a gorgeous backdrop that you will be excited to be married in front of. Some people choose to add arrangements either at the front, back, or along the aisle to fill the space and incorporate more of their colors. Some florists will even repurpose the arrangements lining the aisle for your centerpieces and the arrangements on your altar for your sweetheart table!

Sweetheart table- You and your fiance are the stars of the show (for better or worse!) at your wedding, which means your sweetheart table will be getting a lot of attention! This space should not only be beautiful for aesthetic reasons, but also for your own happiness. Floral arrangements on and around your sweetheart table will help make this space a personal oasis to pop in and out of throughout the night!

Accent arrangements- To complete the wedding design, accent arrangements are often used on the dessert table, welcome table, gift table, and bar. Having these touches of color will help carry the design throughout your wedding!

Signage- Signs on their own have the potential to be a bit lackluster. If you have a simple sign, but your overall design isn’t minimalist, adding a garland or other floral arrangement will add a pop of color and make the sign feel like a more significant piece of the overall design.

Though flowers are a great addition to any design, they aren’t always necessary. Some people choose to skip them and only use greenery, and some people even choose to skip any kind of flora and fauna altogether!

Pro-tip #17: If you are working with a limited floral budget it is better to invest in a few special arrangements that you love, instead of spreading your budget thin and feeling disappointed by all of it! When you look back at your wedding photos you will see the bridal bouquet, the altar, and the sweetheart table over and over. Make sure you are happy with what you see!

You, your fiance, your bridal party, the guests & your design

Certain attire, hair, and makeup works better with different aesthetics. How everyone is dressed matters in relation to making everything cohesive! 

The bride- The bride’s dress, hair, and makeup are such special components to a wedding. All eyes will be on the bride, and by proxy, the dress. Choosing a dress that works with the overall aesthetic is important for the final wedding design. This doesn’t mean your colors or even textures need to match, per say, but rather that the dress style should match your design style. For example, a boho wedding needs a boho dress; a formal wedding needs a formal dress; a minimalist wedding needs a minimalist dress. There are so many options within each category, so your options are certainly not too limited! The bride’s hair and makeup should also be taken into consideration. While you do have more wiggle room on how these aspects will play into the overall design, it is still important to think about how they will work with the overall design and feel of the wedding day.

The groom- Much like the bride, the groom has a spotlight on him so the groom’s attire will be a focal point of the evening. It will look the best and complete the wedding design if the attire works with the rest of the aesthetic. Often, to make the groom stand out next to his groomsmen, his suit will be slightly different. This is a great opportunity to play even further into the wedding design. Both the groom and groomsmens’ suits should work with each other and the overall design, but they can do so in different ways! In addition to his attire, the groom should be groomed. Grooms don’t typically have their hair and makeup professionally done on wedding day (though it does happen!), but a fresh haircut and beard shaping is key! 

The wedding party- The wedding party gets a lot of attention, so what they wear matters for the overall aesthetic. Their attire should complement the bride(s) and/or groom(s) attire without distracting from or overshadowing it. Their attire is typically the two main colors of the wedding aesthetic, though occasionally one side of the wedding party will wear an accent color. In more recent trends, bridesmaids have been wearing mismatched dresses which provides the opportunity to incorporate all of the colors! Their attire should be flattering so they are comfortable and distractions inspired by an ill fitting wardrobe are minimized. Their attire should also match the formality of the event. Tuxedos and super formal evening dresses are not appropriate for all weddings! You can’t control the color or cut of your friends hair (though some people try!), but you can request they be freshly groomed and appropriately styled!

The guests- The exact attire the guests will wear is up to their own discretion, but you can (and should) specify the level of formality your wedding will be. This not only looks better and affects the overall aesthetic, but it also will make the guests more comfortable. No one wants to show up to a casual wedding in a ball gown! You can suggest or request colors and styles of attire for immediate family and Ushers who are participating in the ceremony and/or taking formal pictures with you, but typically people don’t suggest attire colors for the rest of their guests.

Pro-tip #18: The best accessory of all is a big, beautiful, genuine smile! Make sure everyone is feeling their best and going into the day in good spirits! 

How to budget for wedding design-

You can budget however much you are comfortable with spending on decor, but a good place to start is 6-8% of the overall budget for flowers, 5-10% on lighting and/or other rentals, and 2-3% on miscellaneous decor. 

While these percentages are a good starting place, in reality your own allocation of money may look very different. Your design budget will depend on what kind of aesthetic you are going for, the specific decor pieces you want, and what your venue or other vendors already include in their packages. 

Since lighting and flowers create such an impact and require their own respective vendors, they typically earn separate places on the budget breakdown aside from the rest of decor. However, it should be noted that florists often offer decor rentals, so some of your decor may be lumped into the florist category of your budget.

Table linens, chargers, special drinking glasses, centerpiece components aside from flowers, and signage will usually be the next largest cost for decor. A lot of venues, caterers, florists, wedding planners, DJs, or any combination of these vendors may include some or all of these items in their packages or offer them as upgrades. If this happens, these elements may fall into a separate category on your overall budget.

Candles, votives, or other smaller decor pieces are usually the smallest portion of the design budget. Again, one of your vendors may include these items in their packages or offer them as rentals. 

As you piece together your decor, track where each decor element is sourced from and reallocate money in the budget if needed. 

Tying it all together-

Design vision can, and almost always will, shift as planning moves forward. It is important to keep the design cohesive as the vision evolves. When certain aspects are altered, added, or removed be sure to consider how this change will work with your other design elements.  

As decor pieces are purchased, created, or rented be sure that new pieces will complement the existing pieces. This is most easily done by keeping the items or pictures of the items organized in one location so everything can be compared and contrasted as they are added to the wedding design!

Consult with your wedding planner, decorator, or florist as your vision evolves for a second opinion on your evolving vision. These professionals can offer valuable insight into how everything will work together, keep you on track if necessary, and provide advice on how to turn your dream into reality!

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